That is a great expression – “Time heals everything.” In this humble reporter’s opinion (to quote the late, great Howard Cosell), it kind of does and it kind of doesn’t.
Time alone certainly doesn’t heal some illnesses (like cancer) but I have found it does work wonders for softening and eliminating memories of having been done wrong by someone or some other slight. Not only does fighting a life threatening illness put things into a rather harsh perspective, but so does time.
I will be the first to admit that when you are younger, this is hard to believe. At that time things seem so much bigger and worse than they eventually turn out to be. I think that is in part because of our abilities to (mostly) take whatever bad things have been handed to us and then work to make the best of it. And it usually takes time and perspective to see and understand that.
And this is what makes it so important to “be there” to help others as they struggle with whatever bad thing has been handed to them. Very, very few of us can work through the big negative things in our lives without some help. I have always believed that life is a team sport. Sometimes you are the one needing help and sometimes you are the one helping others.
At the end of the day on this road of life, that is what really matters most. Were you there to help others?