I never put much belief in the concept that there is a God watching over everything, meting out help only to certain people who prayed hard enough. If this were true, then why do bad things happen to good people? To test us? I don’t think God is that cruel.
So are we just pin balls bouncing around our world? In some ways we kind of are, but with the big caveat that by our actions toward others we can help create a much better world to be bouncing around in. We may not be masters of our destinies, but I really do think we have the power to form a good path for our lives to follow.
But sometimes for no apparent reason our lives will fall onto a very difficult, rocky road. Instead of belaboring why this has happened, I think the right thing to do is work to make the best of the situation either for ourselves or by helping others. And yes this can be very hard and sometimes things do not go the way we want them to and things continue to get worse.
But I firmly believe that how we make the trip and live our lives is far more important than any end result. The beauty truly comes from the efforts we put forth, not necessarily the finished product.
Instead of focusing on the selfish, immoral actions of a few people, I choose to celebrate the caring, loving, selfless actions both large and small that so many people make every day that makes this world a better place. Look at all those amazing young kids who are doing great things to raise money for the poor or cancer research or even animal rescues. And how about the people who are donating their kidneys and parts of their livers to help others in need? And on and on and on.
I am humbled by all of these people and their actions. What have I done?? While it is smaller than donating a kidney (I don’t think anyone would want mine anyway!), I believe being there to help others in their time of need is hugely valuable. When we do this, the bad things in life seem to shrink down and become more manageable. And at the same time we become much better people by our actions that we take to make things better for others.
While believing in God and praying can create a good solid base for your life, I think what really matters most is not how hard you pray but how you act toward and for others.